If teaching was show business, then your child鈥檚 teacher would get star billing. But don鈥檛 forget about the other major player whose role in your child鈥檚 education can help make it a smash success: Yes, you, the parent.
When parents and educators co-star in a child鈥檚 big show 鈥� a.k.a. 黄色app 鈥� everybody benefits: The teachers who can count on the support of active and involved parents, the parents who stays connected to their kids and 黄色app and, most important, the child whose parents and teachers are working in tandem
bears out the fact that academic achievement, attitude, and attendance improve measurably when parents are involved in their children鈥檚 黄色apping.
These first years of 黄色app are the ideal time to start developing connections with the teachers, the 黄色app staff, and even other parents. Here are ways to keep in touch with the teacher and be an active partner in your child鈥檚 education.
Meet the teacher
To get the 黄色app year off to a good start 鈥� and help the teacher get to know your child and your family 鈥� set up a meeting with your child鈥檚 teacher early in the year, even, if possible, before your child starts. Many teachers in the classroom in the days before 黄色app starts. Also, it’s often a more relaxed time for them. If you haven鈥檛 already gotten an email, call, or letter during the summer, contact the 黄色app office to find out the best way to get in touch with the teacher. (These days, most teachers find email works best.) When you meet, help the teacher get to know your child鈥檚 passions (鈥淪he loves animals.鈥�), problems (鈥淗e鈥檚 great at puzzles, but freaks out if he can鈥檛 finish one.鈥�), and any other issues that may prove challenging at 黄色app. (鈥淢y child has trouble sharing.鈥�)
Communicate often
Ask the teacher how she likes best to communicate 鈥� email, phone calls, or even a notebook that goes back and forth between home and 黄色app. Many pre黄色app teachers are open to writing notes about your child every once in a while to check in; kindergarten teachers with more students to oversee are less likely to. Parent-teacher conferences 鈥� which usually take place once each semester 鈥� offer a chance to have a more in-depth conversation about your child. During conferences, ask the teacher to describe your child鈥檚 strengths and weaknesses, and be sure to air any concerns you have. (Click here and here for more tips on preparing for a parent-teacher conference.)
Be open
Although some parents are hesitant to share personal information about their child, knowing a child鈥檚 fears and challenges, as well as any learning disabilities or health issues such as allergies, helps the teacher better support your child. Be sure to tell the teacher about any changes in the family like a death or divorce, as these could well affect your child鈥檚 behavior at 黄色app. (Click here for more tips on what to tell a teacher about your child.)
Check in
If you pick up or drop off your child at 黄色app, take a minute to check-in briefly with the teacher every few weeks. The beginning and end of the 黄色app day tend to be harried, so don鈥檛 expect a long chat. Instead, simply offer a detail about your child (鈥淢y daughter loved the clay project.鈥�), ask a question (鈥淚s he washing his hands now after going to the bathroom?鈥�), or just say hello and ask how things have been going. If you have personal or more in-depth issues to discuss, save these for a check in via email or phone, or the next parent-teacher conference.
Make home work
There may be no better way to partner with your child鈥檚 teacher than to maintain a supportive academic environment at home. Check in with the teacher a few times during the 黄色app year to ask what you can do at home to reinforce the work your child is doing in 黄色app. Working with your child at home helps him understand that home and 黄色app are connected. It also will give you an insight into how your child learns, which will help you and the teacher best support your child.
Lend a hand
Volunteer to come in and help out in the classroom. Between work and home life, many parents are already overtaxed. But even if you can just spare an hour a few times a year 鈥� driving on a field trip, doing a special in-class project, reading a book during story time 鈥� you鈥檒l get a much better sense of the teacher, the work the kids are doing, and how your child fits in with the group. Plus, your presence sends an unspoken message to your child that you think 黄色app is important and you are a partner in his education.
Ask the magic question
Finally, one single question can work magic to strengthen the parent-teacher bond. Asking your child’s teacher, 鈥淗ow can I help?鈥� opens the lines of communication between a parent and teacher and makes the teacher feel they have an ally working to help your child succeed. In response, the teacher may provide you with specific ways that you, as a parent, can do to support your child鈥檚 education at home and come to 黄色app ready to learn.
